How to Know If a Woman Likes You
Across animal species males typically initiate mating, while women decide to accept or reject those advances.
While we share this prototypical mating arrangement with other mammals, it’s a bit more nuanced with us humans.
Men are expected to make the overt first move like saying hello, striking up a conversation, asking a woman out on a date, etc. But women in fact typically initiate this contact by subtly providing cues that such contact is welcome. In other words, women decide if and when men can initiate romantic advances.
Men who don’t understand this dynamic at best find themselves labeled as an awkward weirdo, and at worst become known as the creep who makes unwanted advances.
Even when a man understands this dynamic, however, there’s a good chance he just doesn’t have a knack for picking up on the subtle social cues that indicate female interest. Rather than initiating unwanted sexual interest, this fella fails to make a move when a lady wants him to! Many a man out there has had the experience of a woman telling him, “I gave you so many signals! How did you not know I liked you?!” Sometimes a guy gets lucky and finally clues into this interest because the gal is patient and persistent. But sometimes, someone who could have been your one and only, ends up being the one who got away.
If you’ve had a hard time sussing out whether or not women are attracted to you and open to your advances, below we provide research-backed signs to look for.
Signs a Girl Is Attracted to You
You’ve probably read articles online where the author gives you a list of body language signals that women give off to let you know they’re attracted to you. While it’s easy to roll your eyes at lists like these, research suggests there’s actually something to them.
Psychologist Monica Moore spent a few months observing over 200 single women at parties, bars, clubs, and restaurants. From her observations, she found over 52 things women do when they’re attracted to a man. They don’t have to do all of them or in any particular order to indicate interest; some women have their go-to flirty moves. Though, the more of these signals you see and the more often you see a woman display them, the more likely it is that she’s attracted to you and would welcome your advances.
Of the 52 signals, Moore saw these 12 the most frequently:
Smiling at you
Shooting short glances your way
Darting her eyes away when you look at her
Making prolonged eye contact with you
Running fingers through her hair
Licking her lips
Exposing her neck
Tilting her heads towards you
Turning in her seat towards you
Lightly touching you on the arm or shoulder
Laughing when you talk
Caressing an object in her hands
Among the dozen above, the most common signals of female interest are smiles, direct eye contact, and/or repeated glances towards and away from you.
Oh yeahhh ladies? You start dying when you stop dreaming.
Source: https://www.artofmanliness.com/2018/02/27/know-woman-likes/
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